All About Estates

Check Under the Bed for the Important Papers.

It is still Alzheimer’s “Do Not Forget” month and this blog concludes my January contribution on living and loving someone with a dementia.

Financial considerations for those diagnosed with a dementia is significant. Being prepared and helping your parents to be prepared is good planning, no matter what the diagnosis. A recent post titled “10 Things You Should Know About Your Parent’s Finances” offers good tips for families loving/living with someone with a dementia. While it is an American posting, it has been modified so it is relevant for our Canadian readers. I am sharing this blog with you, and the original posting is at
Here are 10 things you should know about your parent’s finances:
1. Have they named a power of attorney to manage their finances?
2. Where do they keep their financial records?
Whether they keep their money and documents in a bank, a safe, or under the mattress, you need to know where to find records when you need them. What is the location of keys or codes to lock boxes or safes?
3. What are their bank account numbers and names of their financial institutions?
In addition to knowing where they keep their money, you need specifics on all account numbers. What banks do they use? Who is their mortgage company? Do they have an investment firm?
4. What are your parent’s monthly expenses?
Gather information on their mortgage, car payment, credit card debt, electric bill and other expenses.
5. How do they pay their bills currently?
If there are automatic deductions being taken out of a checking account, you need to know about it. Do they use online banking, or only paper checks?
6. How much is their annual income and where does it come from?
Does your parent receive a monthly pension check? Do they have dividends coming in from investments? Do they get money for a disability, or alimony?
7. Do they receive any government assistance?
8. What kind of medical health insurance do they have?
Do they have health insurance provided by an employer? If they are retired, are health benefits included as part of a pension?
9. Do they have long-term care insurance?
A “regular” health insurance plan does not cover the cost of assisted living or a nursing home. Did they purchase a long term care insurance policy to cover the cost of those residences? If not, and they can no longer live on their own, what can they afford in terms of housing?
10. Do they have an accountant or financial planner?
Who is it and how do you contact them? Have they done any estate planning?

Happy Planning: Audrey Miller

About Audrey Miller
About: Audrey Miller, Managing Director of Elder Caring Inc. has over 30 years social work and rehabilitation experience working with older individuals and their families. She advises the financial, insurance, legal and business communities regarding elder care issues. Audrey is a recognized expert in her field. Email: