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What March 8th Means To Me

“I am woman, hear me roar
In numbers too big to ignore
And I know too much to go back an’ pretend
‘Cause I’ve heard it all before”

– Helen Reddy 1971

As the ‘regular’ Monday blogger, I am very pleased to have an opportunity to connect with you today.

Today is a special day for a few reasons.

It is International Women’s Day- a day to recognize all of the wonderful women in (y)our lives; starting with our mothers and mother in laws, our sisters, aunts, grandmothers, daughters, granddaughters, our girlfriends and our co workers.  A big thank you to my female clients and colleagues who continue to teach me humility, respect, care and hope.  This year was difficult for everyone however women may have been impacted more as we carry the brunt of caregiving responsibilities.

As well, Social Work Awareness week has just concluded and the theme for this year was #YouAreNotAlone.

Social workers often get a back rap. The name alone infers for many a negative image- if I need a social worker, things must be really bad! This is part of the reason for these awareness campaigns.  For years I have used the term ‘Care Manager’ to describe what we do at Elder Caring.  However most on our team are registered social workers and this is a title I have proudly worn since 1980.

Just a few words about social work.  Social workers are regulated by provincial law and in Ontario, the Social Work and Social Service Work Act, 1998 is overseen by the Ministry of Community and Social Services. Only Registered Social Workers  (RSW) who are members in good standing of the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers can call themselves a ‘Social Worker’ and have RSW after their name.

Services provided by a registered social worker are often covered by extended health care plans which means we can provide a receipt for our services which may be reimbursed by your carrier. Registered Social Workers are also HST exempt.

The other reason today is special is because it is my dearest girlfriend’s birthday. While we have not lived in the same city for over 30 years, we have remained close.  It is a particularly difficult birthday for her as her dad died a few weeks.  Happy Birthday Sue.

The  final great thing about today is that  I will be participating in the National STEP Symposium exploring ways to better support vulnerable clients and prevent elder abuse.

And of course, there are now only twelve days (or sleeps) until spring!

About Audrey Miller
About: Audrey Miller, Managing Director of Elder Caring Inc. has over 30 years social work and rehabilitation experience working with older individuals and their families. She advises the financial, insurance, legal and business communities regarding elder care issues. Audrey is a recognized expert in her field. Email:

1 Comment

  1. Dr. E.C. Adams

    March 8, 2021 - 8:57 pm

    It is a very special day to me too! While teaching at University I received the document that I could sign for my final decree of divorce, from a very abusive husband. I signed it March 18, and that date became my Freedom Day. Married 6 years and in a horrendous situation I never wanted anyone to know that an educated woman with a wonderful position, could be living in such circumstance.
    Pierre Trudeau, had just signed the bill permitting mental cruelty as a reason for dissolution of marriage. It became a time in 1970s when women began to support each other. I was supported and for many months had to run from safe house to safe house.

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